weekend was always the same for me...
last nite bring the kids to changi airport T3...
for shopping and dinner ..siow rite...went all the way to airport.
But my boy have fun..
Sometimes i look at him , i am quite worry..
coz he is so " soft " , abit only his tears will drop...
Not sure how to teach him , coz i am the same kind but what worry me is,
I am gal but he is a boy ..how can he little bit only drop tears...
sometimes bring up a child can be a big headache...
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Not to be worry, when he grow up everything will be okay.
Appleteas, what you can do is to keep encourage him and tell him is ok to cry but not at little things...don't tell him CANNOT cry or is shameful that boy cry, I personally feel is "wrong" way of teaching which our old generation did...because when he grows up, it can be a negative impact on him...just guide him along the way and he will become a stronger person...is hard to strike a balance of leaving him alone to change by himself and guiding/encouraging him...guess that's what make bringing up a child very hard, just like ourself being a person, isn't it the same? hard to strike a balance and hard to know what to do and say because the other may not agree or may even misunderstand our good and everyone has own judegment or others....jia you!!! :)
is from me, ying
别担心，我的二哥小时候也是爱哭鬼，现在生了个男孩也是很容易哭，但我这个二哥很顾家的！小时哭，大了就不会常哭了。。。
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