It been so long since i blog...
it's not that things are improving neither is it things are getting worse..
it that i am just too tired to blog...
busy with work , after work already dog tired ...
i am not afraid of my readers getting sick of my happening and honestly i don't care!
still the same old thing in me and my marriage
nothing to be happy about and nothing to be sad about...
Birthday coming..as i grow older , the things that i want or expect is different...
last time when i was young , i wish for a wonderful boy friend
when i get marry , i wish for a baby
now i wish for a happy family with responsible people living inside
had met an old friend last few days , she just had a divorce..
which the hubby has got a china woman 5 years ago...
and the hubby of hers kept asking for divorce..
but because of love , because of the 2 boys , she hold on to the family...
she told herself that she will give herself 5 years.
finally the day that her mum pass away , she agree to divorce...
why she hold till 5 years ?
alot of you may think she is silly , stupid etc but her reason is she wants to
make sure that when she sign this paper , she has totally give out on this man
and will not regret what she did...
this is what i have in mind too...
anyway like what she say , "she is not in a rush to divorce"
she needs to be answerable to herself...
this time round i find her very tough ! she really give out on him ...
i admire her spirit...
another friend of mine , which is a married man so call girl friend...
she and me is quite alrite friend
but i just hate it that she loves to play mind game esp with that man
i can't understand why must do that and i really really really hate it lor...
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true true no need to take everyone words to heart, everyone just sharing their own stories. everyone has their own opinion, guess it shouldnt turn into a internal war nor shld we start scolding pple or start being sarcastic just becos one thinks she is the saint. peace ...
life cannot always be rosy ...
just count ones' blessing :)
One female lead in "Sex and the City" said in the movie, "This is my life, and I don't have to justify it.". Would like to share this with you, my dearest mei mei. Happy to see you back to the blog scene!
A lot of woman and man also like to play mind game and I also hate that a lot! I feel even more tired than them because I have to keep guessing what's up in their mind and if I dont' guess, I am treated like idiot. I know of couples (married and not married also) play a lot of mental games to control each other money, mind, activities,etc. I think the one who play is not because of love because if really love, then there won't be mind game involved. Where got time and energy to have mind game if really love each other and mind game is actually because of lack of TRUE love, trust or because of wanting control of money,that person,etc. This world is becoming more sick because more and more such ppl now. True love,trust, sincerity all are in dreamland because it takes 2 hands to have TRUE love, trust,sincerity and only 1 party doing and having all that is not enough at all...
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