There is this anonymous 946 who comment in my blog...
Only one thing i can say ...u are not me , u won't understand...
Last time when i see this kind of comment i will feel sad ,
but this time round i did not...
because i know that i need not answer to everybody of my decision and i
also need not answer to anyone that am i just everytime say say only..
he or she mention...
if love made you so tire, then whats there for you to hold on ?
don tell me if someone very tire of living then better go and end their life..
if making decision on such thing is soooo easy , then this thing will not be a problem ... i am not the only person living in this world...any decision done ,
i am actually affecting alot alot of people and alot alot of things...
marriage is not 2 person matters and so is divorce...
he or she also mention...
You think you cannot leave him because you LOVE HIM????? Then by making a man who don't love you to sleep beside look GREAT????
and yes , my answer is i still love him till now...and it's not so easy as let go and find another man , another new life ... if getting out and find someone new to love is so easy then what value is love ?
and i also do not need to answer to anyone of do i look great to sleep beside a man who dont love me... how many person can confirm that the person sleeping beside you loves only you ?
And i don think he dont love me , more or less still have a little but of coz love himself more.
You are as selfish as your husband.
LOVE HIM is your excuse........having a complete family is also an excuse....... money is also an excuse........your son also an excuse...............
you may be right...i got lots of excuses ...
I know my matter best ....and yes , till this very moment i am still confuse...
To my readers , i write this blog to let myself vent, so that i will feel better ,
coz i do not have people to talk to ...
u do not need to agree with whatever i say but pls have some respect...
if you feel that i write all nonsense , then dont log on to my blog...
i record down my true feelings ...anything wrong with that ?
i am a normal human , i am not a movie star or anything ,
i am just a normal woman , wanted normal life...
maybe 10 years down the road , i am still the same ...
still complaining and still no action...only god knows
maybe people is getting tired of my blog, but i dont care , i dont write
hoping more people to come in and read my blog...
and i don need people to see anything great in me ...
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Hi appleteas
Long time I did not lv any comment when I visit you. I knw that u r able to handle the situation and you know yrself best. You jiayou!
Recently I also hv comment from someone like this. When I said I hv no more tears to cry after my Mum died. It is a figure of speech...truly I can't cry...what more reason is there for me to cry? No one worth my tears.
So you need not get upset by the comment...one man drink the water..only he will knw whether the water is hot or cold... how can another person comment.
Stay well my friend. Always here for you.
幸好沒用一輩子的幸福來可憐你
http://champagnejungle.blogspot.com/2009/02/blog-post_18.html
a good read for you ...
written for a friend who woke up just in time ...
i am not trying to comment but to make you face your problem more clearly.
Finally, know why you cannot leave that bad egg, YOU CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT A MAN......
If you think i am asking to you end life , then you are WRONG. I just want to let you know, life without him can still be happy.
I am not encouraging you divorce BUT YOU MUST KNOW HOW TO LIVE WITH LOVE AGAIN.
Since you are so smart to reply on my "comments" then why you cannot do it on him?????? because he only have ears for you.
You keep saying you LOVE him, then why you see him rot like you... by paying whatever for him, standing beside him when he fail is loving him...... then recall how you make your son first step.........
Sometime, we must learn to let go then that person then can stand up again....unless you are telling me before married he is already like that, then why you married him is real big question mark......
Lian : True only the person that drink the water will know whether water is cold or hot... how you know i never drink this water before.... maybe worse than hers.
forgot to add on :
letting him go is not to find a replacement.Love cannot be replaced.
of course i am not and i will not live like you. Thinking how to make myself pretty outside to cover the wounds is not my style.
Not wrong to write your feeling so is not wrong for reader to give your their advise.
You think i try to offen you, then i should be happy to see you reply to all comments and you write the true of you.
As a stranger, when you watch another stranger on the road being beaten, you sure will help out by either calling police or stop them right....
i don't have to know you to write all these.........truely a friend is not only giving you a ear but a shoulder to cry..... i cannot be writing the best wishes to you when i don't see the best for you.
BTW, after you reply me, hope you can see the true you now.
Lian : we don't cry or laugh for anyone but for ourselves. Tears is born in our body so how can you cry for others. When my cousin pass away, i cry, not because i feel sad for them but i feel sad for myself for losing them... you understand.
Cry and laugh as you wish.....neither do you need to give excuse for crying nor to see whether worth crying... surpressing make you sad and no one will cry for you when you sick.....
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