What is love ? How deep can a person love be ? To love someone unconditional, is it healthy ? To love someone but end up getting yourself very hurt , is it normal ? How mercy can a person be ?
Appleteas...you asked the questions..you answered all of them already by your actions all these times. To each, their way of feeling Love, Expressing Love, the Limits of Forgiveness, Patience and Tolerence are different.
The answer is with yourself. Others feelings are not what you want and neither will you react to it.
I know for you to post something like this means something is hurting you again. You are waiting for 浪子回头...and it takes a big heart to do so. You have your reasons for hanging on and ONLY you know why. If LOVE is so easily say 'Start' and 'Stop'...it will save lots of heartaches.
love is something that no one else will understand yr current position. But when come to a point where it even affects yr son upbringing.... affects his emotions... affects his everything.... a point where yr son suddenly will ask you if you are happy.....
That will be my limit. I will choose to give my child the best, let him be happy and to show him that i am really happy, rather than waiting and hoping for miracle.
yes you are right..and ny son is telling me , he love the family , a family must have mum , dad and him.. he wants the family...so i am doing my part not to break his heart...i dont think i am wrong...
I guess there is no right or wrong. To stay or to leave is not a issue of right or wrong, just what is best for u and ur kiddo. Leaving now also doesnt mean the point of no return.
Sometime a short break might be good for u and him ...
but still for the sake of ur son, maybe it is a good idea to wait till ur son is older and able to understand the situation better to leave also ... A bad husband rather than no father for the boy ~
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Appleteas...you asked the questions..you answered all of them already by your actions all these times. To each, their way of feeling Love, Expressing Love, the Limits of Forgiveness, Patience and Tolerence are different.
The answer is with yourself. Others feelings are not what you want and neither will you react to it.
I know for you to post something like this means something is hurting you again. You are waiting for 浪子回头...and it takes a big heart to do so. You have your reasons for hanging on and ONLY you know why. If LOVE is so easily say
'Start' and 'Stop'...it will save lots of heartaches.
Love............ where is the limit...........
love is something that no one else will understand yr current position. But when come to a point where it even affects yr son upbringing.... affects his emotions... affects his everything.... a point where yr son suddenly will ask you if you are happy.....
That will be my limit. I will choose to give my child the best, let him be happy and to show him that i am really happy, rather than waiting and hoping for miracle.
yes you are right..and ny son is telling me , he love the family , a family must have mum , dad and him.. he wants the family...so i am doing my part not to break his heart...i dont think i am wrong...
well, you are his mummy. I believe you will be able to tell if he is happy, truely happy or hoping not to see his mummy get sad.
Just ask yrself if he is really turning back? Are you sure this is the best for yr kid.
willl still stand by you no matter wat though.
I guess there is no right or wrong. To stay or to leave is not a issue of right or wrong, just what is best for u and ur kiddo. Leaving now also doesnt mean the point of no return.
Sometime a short break might be good for u and him ...
but still for the sake of ur son, maybe it is a good idea to wait till ur son is older and able to understand the situation better to leave also ... A bad husband rather than no father for the boy ~
really 'pei fu' ur perserverance thou ...
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