Hi Alice ,
I may not know you ...it's a by chance that i read your blog !
I just wan to tell you , I too have been through alot .. althought i am still together with him but all the hurts that he has done to me again and again ..is really not what u can imagine and if u ask me then why am i still with him ? My answer is only ... 缘分未尽 , in fact i tried but it's always due to 我放不下. I can say i love him more then he loves me , even till now ..and of coz also because of i have a little one.. I know i can be better off without him but at the same time i also have to think for my son.
As for you , there are still alot of love ones beside you, who cares for you..and since he has decided to leave (I think at least he made a choice) unlike mine ...who left me hanging in the air !!! U know what i mean...and i think , u have been sorry and sad about yourself for long enough...If there is no way to make him come back to u...why not u treat yourself better...make him knows that without him , life goes on and ever happiler...
Tell yourside , if few months or ever years down the road , if he comes back to u ...tell him to get lost...and if he can leave u for another gal...the gal can also leave him for another man ...u understand...I know it's easy say then done...but it's all within the will power...
Of coz u may feel , i got the mouth to tell others but why don i let go ...
I tell you...i will ...if he decided he wans to leave !
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Thanks for your letter to me... i know what you had been through cos i had tried it out two weeks with him after i found out he had a woman outside... during these two weeks, i had a very hard time... cos i was like u.. one side asked me to not to think and start afresh, one side i was asking myself "did they talked on the phone? did they sms? did they go out again.. i cannot stand it... i therefore decided to let him go physically. Till today... i am still having a bad time ... emtionally, i am still very bad down... cos i am too dependant on him too long.. i lost myself in the event... i duno even know how to love myself... 16years, my heart only have him... now i lost it... i also tot i could do it without him, which i am doing now.. but its still very very painful... (i still tearing when i am writing this) Am i too stubborn? i really duno know..
For your case, i dun think u are stupid. i tell u, as long as one day, yr hus didn't tell u he no longer loves you, you still got the chance...
for my case, i am the one who asked him to move out... (stupid right? i know i will be so bad today) but i got no choice... cos he told me he had no more feelings for me anymore... i ask him " did you love me before" he answered me : Nope, never...." there are words i will remember for life... someone i love so hurt hurt me as must...
this is what i am going through now...thinking if they are still together ... i have told him to go if he really wan to be with that china woman ...but he is selfish..
although he did not say out that he no longer loves me , but really can tell one...
at least knowing where to head is better then hanging in the air..clueless .. who knows , 3 months later when she is back ..he may leave me for good...
u are not stubborn , is just that you 用情太深 ！
my lady boss see my tearing when i was writing... :P
受伤的女人们, 我为你们心疼!
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