人不怕犯错，
错了，要了解到底错在那里？
要如何去改善…
错了，要懂得如何去面对现实，如何去扛起这个责任。
只是懂得是自己造成而不懂得有必要去改，
去勇敢面对的人，
意味着想逃避现实，
逃避责任的人其实是弱者…
世界不会因为谁而末日，
人不会因为没有谁而失去生命！
日子还是要照常过，
只是要过得开心或者不开心，自己决对可以掌控…
自己活的痛苦万分，
但是他知道吗？
知道了，又怎样？
会陪着您一起流泪吗？值得吗？
如果你现在有个真心爱你的伴侣，请珍惜这份缘，
好好的爱你的他…不要呼呼呵呵。
如果现在的你是一个人要走出这个伤心的阴影，
请好好爱自己，相信自己一定可以挨过，婚姻不是生命的全部…
儿我目前选择了‘不攻’，‘不退’…
但是我会尽量让自己开心。
( 也许我是在自欺欺人，但我会加油！）
1 comment:
The decision u made sort of is the decision my mom made. u know for the kid, for the love, for the family. but now she end up old and alone. My dad really left after 30+ yrs of marriage because the kids has grown up and there is NO REASON for him to stay anymore. What abt my mother who standby him for all these years, in the end it meant nothing to him? thou i know she is trying to act as brave as she can but at her age 50+, it is not easy to restart her life with another man. ya she has kids but my bro will get married one day and i am married and oversea cant be by her side too.
You are still so young why suffer so much now to regret later? might as well be cruel to urself and ur hb now and try to restart your life when u are still young and youth is still on your side?
if u and ur hb are meant to be, then fate play in a very weird and u might be bring back together ONE day. But if u don't leave him now, he will never learn because u are always there for him to lean on.
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